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BitchAway Cafe, the Special Toby Edition. [Oct. 18th, 2009|03:11 am]
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I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.


Happy Catharsis, luvs.
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Status Update [Aug. 23rd, 2009|09:20 pm]
Due to circumstances I will discuss less publicly at some point, my power has been off since Friday.

This has led to being a little busy managing things, having to trek to starbucks to use the internet and charge my phone, and a lot of Crazy. Heh.

I will let ya'll know when I am back up and running. It should be on tomorrow.
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Reading Offer, in a serious crunch here... [Aug. 20th, 2009|01:43 am]
This is not an update. That will have to wait until... heh. Another time, anyways. I have a prompt for posting that I need to actually do, but first I must take care of some business.

Things are tight right now. Really, unbelievably, panic-inducing tight. It's beyond "crunch time" and into "flail about while screaming like a little girl because the deadlines are going to eat you" time.


So... Having taken care of a lot of the stuff I still had on my plate, and having a better chance of actually having reliable access on my own schedule very soon, I need to do everything I can to make money. Now.

This, of course, means tarot readings.

Unfortunately, I cannot offer them for tips, and other than special promotions I do not know that I will be doing so at any time in the future. For the most part, things went well, but there were, unfortunately, some serious issues I cannot afford to deal with. One of them was that, even though the very nature of tips is unpredictable, I ran into more unreliability than usual at times when I could least afford it. It seems that the farther I got outside my immediate circle, the longer and longer it took for people to even get back to me for follow-up, and then even those who said they were going to tip often just dropped out of sight. There have been wonderful exceptions to this, but not enough for me to be able to count on and plan around.

So, I will now be asking for payment up-front, with readings available at different price levels. I have been working for awhile to find different layouts that work for me at different levels of depth and detail. I will be getting a web site up soon, but for now here is the official word:


Readings
$5 - A basic quick answer-to-a-question with a "does it look good/favorable or not" sort of response. Ya'll know me, I never could say anything in twenty words or less (heh), so this will likely be about a paragraph's worth. You know, my long rambly ones, but only about one. You should note that looking for a black-and-white, yes-or-no answer from tarot cards is not really going to work. It is more likely to come out "This negative issue is in the way" or "This is helping it move to a positive place" in very basic terms. (A)

$10 - A basic "this is the underlying issue" sort of reading, without the in-depth details. It covers what led to it, what it is focused on, and what direction is being suggested. I have no idea how long the write-ups for this will be right now, in light of that whole "wordy" thing I have going for me. (B)

$20 - Your basic situational reading, with more depth than the above as far as what the issues really are and where they came from. Also, this one includes a follow-up question for clarification, at least for now. (C)

$35 - Much like the above, only including more about what is blocking or helping the situation and what needs to be looked at more closely. Also includes a follow-up, with a more detailed answer. (D)

$50 - A Consultation Reading. This is the one that gets into all the whys and wherefores, looks at what choices led from one part to another, what is blocking everything, what is working... etc. and so forth. It generally involves a follow-up or two, depending on the reading and the issue, and occasionally some seriously in-depth back and forth discussion. This is the reading some of my older, more regular clients generally get from me, even if they didn't know it at the time. ;) ("Consultation")


How-To
1. Payments go to nalidoll AT gmail DOT com, through paypal. From now on, readings do not get done until they are marked paid, unless I have made other arrangements with you ahead of time. This is only likely to happen with repeat clients and people I know personally, however. When sending the payment, include the email you will be using to contact me, if it is not the same email as that listed on the payment.
2. Email me at the above email address with "Tarot Request" and the level of reading (A-D, Consultation) you would like to receive in the subject line. Other than that, all I *need* is the name you prefer to be called by, except for the (A) level readings, where I need your question.
3. I will do the readings in the order I receive payment and send them out to you.


The blahblahblah about me, for them what don't know...
1. I have been doing this over twenty years. I read a little of everything, with cards being my favorite.
2. Yes, I am pretty damn good at it. Thank heavens.
3. I am currently using the Housewives' Tarot. It makes me happy.
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Almost an Update [Jul. 3rd, 2009|11:41 pm]
Quick things...

- Still no internet at the new place, but it should be set up by the middle of next week.

- Still not Moved (well, my stuff.... *I* am at the new place), because of Unforseen Happenings.

- I am on crutches, because one of those Unforseen Things involves possible torn cartilage in my knee.

- I am sitting up at Narah right now, where the roomie works, listening to Arabian Pop and the sound of hookahs. I may or may not be able to get some work done here.

- I have no idea what is going on with any of you I have not been talking with on the phone. The usual "tell me if I missed anything good" rules apply until further notice.

- My new place rocks like no other.
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Because I might be in that sort of mood.... [May. 30th, 2009|03:11 am]
I share this with you.

Christopher Titus - Love is evoL


I laughed my frickin' ass off.
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BitchAway Cafe, the "Because I Said So" Edition. [May. 29th, 2009|07:09 pm]
Yes. I am having a Moment.


So, ladies and gents, it's that time again.

The BitchAway Cafe is now Open For Business.

Most of you know how it works, but for those who don't...

This is a safe place to BitchAway about what is bothering you. Rant, rave, throw a fit... whatever. Let loose with what's eating at you. No worries about it cluttering up your journal, just come on in and leave it behind here...

Anonymous Comments are enabled. They are not screened. I do log IPs, for security reasons, but unless you are one of the reasons I have to do this, I can't be bothered with checking them.

Feel free to commiserate with others, if they are dealing with something you Grok. Be careful with offering advice, though, unless it is requested. This is a place to blow off steam, and sometimes people want to do that without hearing all the ways they might fix it. If someone orders up some advice, though, and you think you might have what they need - by all means step up.

I will not tolerate anyone attacking any of the Cafe Patrons for anything they say. Management reserves the right to smite anyone breaking this rule.

So... come on in, pull up a comment field and pour yourself some catharsis... along with a little of whatever works for you.
Oh, and feel free to invite your friends, if you think someone needs a safe place to get something off their chest. The Cafe is open to anyone who needs it, as always.
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For those awaiting Readings... [May. 23rd, 2009|02:22 am]
[music |Emuzeki - The Jigs]

I have not forgotten any of you. I have the requests, queued and marked as they came in.

After a day, yesterday, of heat-induced migraines topped off by ridiculous dealings with life issues, my life today took a turn for the Annoying.
I will be completeing all of the readings in my queue before the end of the weekend, however.

I apologize for this, and though I cannot offer up any of today's culprits for appeasement (though annoying, I *like* the people involved in my frustrations today), all of those involved in the issues slowing me down for the days before are available for sacrifice, should it be needed to smooth things over.



ETA: Family emergencies and Life Issues rarely stick to schedule. Neither does the weather. I should know this.
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Calling it a night. [May. 20th, 2009|04:39 am]
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I am a very sleepy Dolli.

I did not get through my whole queue for today, but I made a Hel of a dent.
I am caught up on follow-up, too, but that is fairly easy seeing as it takes forever for anyone to get back to me, usually. Heh.

Because a big part of my job right now involves having to write things up in something resembling clear-and-coherent English, I think it is time to call it a night. Especially seeing as it takes me twice as long to type something up once my fingers get to the too-sleepy-to-remember-where-the-keys-are stage. My brain doesn't care where the keys are, since it can't spell anymore anyways.

Things resembling updates sometime in the near-type part of the soonishness of time. Maybe.





I go sleep now.
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Tarot Readings - Making Things Happen [May. 12th, 2009|09:58 pm]
Right now, I am very much wanting/needing to do as many Readings as I can. I have a chance to finally get a place of my own, and I need to raise the funds to get this Feat of Independence accomplished (it has been years in the making).
So, if you have been *thinking* about getting a reading, now would be a fabulous time to do so and possibly help a Dolli out. Every little bit counts and matters.

Because every little bit does help, I am still not going to set prices. The readings will still be for Tips.

I am making this an open post, so that anyone and everyone who would like to help by spreading the word can do so. This is also highly encouraged and appreciated, and would be considered a huge favor. Linking, cutting/pasting, or whatever... it is all good.


The general information is the same as usual.



The Basics
- You email me at nalidoll (AT) gmail (DOT) com, and put "Tarot Reading Request" in the subject line. Give me the name you most prefer to be called by.
- I will do the readings in the order I get them. I will send your reading back to you, to the email address provided.
- Once you receive the reading, you may ask me a question or for some clarification. This is always true of my readings.
- After you have your reading, you can tip me whatever amount you feel is appropriate at my paypal account under the same gmail address.
- While completely optional, Feedback is Highly Appreciated and Encouraged. Heh.
- While also optional, spreading the word is also appreciated.


The Background
For those not familiar with me or my readings, I have been reading Tarot Cards, specifically, for over 20 years. I also read a little of everything else, but Tarot remains my favorite, I think. I am currently using, mostly, the Housewives Tarot. It makes me smile, and that is always a good thing in my book.
Questions about any of this are always welcomed, and answered as promptly as I am able.

Right now, this is open to everyone, so feel free to pass it along, should you know of anyone who might be interested.
If you've gotten readings from me before, by the by, also feel free to jump in with any commentary about the experience*.



And, because it has been pointed out that this makes it easier for people...







The Tip Jar



So, please... pass along this info if you can, here or elsewhere. Contact me if you've been thinking about a reading yourself.
Have some other ideas/questions about how you can help or how I might expand this more? Email me. I am open to suggestions and will take any ideas you have.

Thank You!



*And yes, this would be a fabulous place for those comments. I'll even allow anon comments.
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Tarot Readings, once again for Tips. [Apr. 21st, 2009|05:55 pm]
I've noticed there seems to be a lot of crazy stuff going on in the lives of my friends... and I am so right there with you. CrazyGood, for the most part, but Crazy, nonetheless.

So, in honor of the craziness and because I need to do some fund-raising to make the Good keep moving forward in my own life, I am once more offering Tarot Readings for Tips. I am working on setting up something more permanent and setting actual prices somewhere down the line, but for now I am opening up to everyone and asking only that you tip what you think is appropriate.


The Basics
- You email me at nalidoll (AT) gmail (DOT) com, and put "Tarot Reading Request" in the subject line. Give me the name you most prefer to be called by.
- I will do the readings in the order I get them. I will send your reading back to you, to the email address provided.
- Once you receive the reading, you may ask me a question or for some clarification. This is always true of my readings.
- After you have your reading, you can tip me whatever amount you feel is appropriate at my paypal account under the same gmail address.
- While completely optional, Feedback is Highly Appreciated and Encouraged. Heh.
- While also optional, spreading the word is also appreciated.


The Background
For those not familiar with me or my readings, I have been reading Tarot Cards, specifically, for over 20 years. I also read a little of everything else, but Tarot remains my favorite, I think. I am currently using, mostly, the Housewives Tarot. It makes me smile, and that is always a good thing in my book.
Questions about any of this are always welcomed, and answered as promptly as I am able.
All proceeds, at the moment, go toward taking care of some things I need to pay off, putting minutes on my phone so I can actually keep in contact with the outside world, possibly buying the art supplies I need to finally get some projects completed, and other such Dolli Things. I am working towards getting a place of my own, and I need to get a few things squared away in order to be ready for that.


Right now, this is open to everyone, so feel free to pass it along, should you know of anyone who might be interested.
If you've gotten readings from me before, by the by, also feel free to jump in with any commentary about the experience.



And, because it has been pointed out that this makes it easier for people...

The Tip Jar





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Tarot Readings [Feb. 19th, 2009|04:21 pm]
Hey...

Due to numerous things... including the fact that I have been dreaming about various Fortune Telling themes for a week straight, the fact that this month has been Highly Interesting (heh) as far a finances go, and the fact that I am still in the middle of a move while leading into My Birthday Month... I have decided to not wait until I have my computer to do something I have been wanting/needing to do for a while...

(ETA: I now have my computer, along with plenty of time... so the more the merrier.)

So... This is a Friends Only offer, right now... but I would like to offer tarot readings for tips.

First of all, I know for a fact that there are a couple people I owed readings to, from back when my life blew up and my internet connection went bye-bye. I was trying to find the records for this before I ended up far, far away from my own computer yet again (I have spent much of the last year away from my computer). If you are one of those people, please contact me in email so we can remedy the situation to everyone's (yours, mainly) satisfaction.

As for everyone else... here is how this will work:

If you would like a reading, email me at Nalidoll AT Gmail DOT com. Put Tarot Reading Request in the subject. Give me your name as you prefer to be addressed.
I will do the readings as I get them. I will be working on these for at least a couple hours a day.
Then, when you have received your reading, send whatever amount you feel is good to my paypal account, using the same email address. As I said, this is reading for "tips".
All readings do include one follow-up/clarification question as well, as usual.

So, there you have it.

(Button added by request.)
The Tip Jar:






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BitchAway Cafe [Dec. 20th, 2008|02:20 pm]
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Yes, that's right... after a long hiatus, the BitchAway Cafe is once again open for business... just in time for the Holidays.

So, for them what don't know, or thems what forgot, here are the basics:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.



In horror honor of the Holidaze, the Cafe will happily take bitching through the New Year.
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Message in Bottle [Dec. 22nd, 2007|07:56 pm]
"I would make such a good administrative assistant."
"you don't have the legs for it honey - "
"lol"
"you should post where you started where you said "I would make such a good administrative assistant"

While I'm sitting here, freezing, dictating to [info]azreel, umm... what I wanted to let you all know that I am moving forward, that I am making hard but necessary decisions, and that I am thinking about each and every one of you.

Umm.. hold on.

things... are probably going to get messy and difficult, but I believe that everything is working out as it should, and all of the positive thoughts and gestures are more than appreciated.

My toes are cold.

So, I will say only that I love you all...

And, I hope to be able to talk to you all soon, and I wish you all the best, while I try to make the best of my own life.

See you on the flip side...

*dictated but not read, typed by [info]azreel as dictated by [info]nalidoll, who was not dressed adequately for the 30 degree weather.*
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Because I thought everyone could use something beautiful today... [Oct. 17th, 2007|02:51 pm]
A video )
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What Miss Bit did with her night... [Sep. 29th, 2007|07:29 am]
It is a self-portrait, apparently.

Heh.

elouai's doll maker 3
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Gods, I hope so, Uncle Rob. I really hope so. [Sep. 25th, 2007|07:08 pm]
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): "You know how it feels when you're leaning
back on a chair," muses comedian Steven Wright, "and you lean too far
back, and you almost fall over backwards, but then you catch yourself at
the last second? I feel like that all the time." If you're a typical Pisces, you
know exactly what he's talking about. That's the bad news. The good
news is that you're in a phase when you could figure out how to escape
that feeling forever. It may be hard for you to imagine (but luckily I'm
here to help you imagine) how much power you have right now to build
more security and stability into your life.
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I had to... [Sep. 23rd, 2007|11:48 pm]
A couple people have posted this, and I am too much of a synesthete not to want to see everyone's answers.

Answer them first, then read mine. It is more fun that way.

What color is fear?

What sound does affection make?

What texture does Autumn have?

What shape does a conversation make?

What fabric is a kitten made of?

What noise is made by curiosity?

What is the smell of knowledge?

How do you punctuate life?

What does death taste like?

If a tree falls in the forest and there’s no one there to hear it, what kind of tree is it?


My answers here... )
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Well, that's one theory. [Sep. 23rd, 2007|12:14 am]

Ragdolli

- 1/4 cup of playfulness
- 2 teaspoons of loyalty
- a teaspoon of seduction

Blend together quickly and serve.
'What is your personality recipe?' at QuizGalaxy.com
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Yup... [Sep. 20th, 2007|02:27 am]
That about covers it.
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DAMMIT, Uncle Rob! [Sep. 18th, 2007|07:59 pm]
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Mythologist Joseph Campbell wrote books
that describe the archetypal elements of the hero's journey. Borrowing his
perspective, I want you to know that it's a perfect moment to take on the
role of the hero and carry out an extended exploration of the underworld.
Although it's dark and odd down there, it happens to be the realm where
your soul feels most at home. And your ego? It will probably feel like an
exile, at least initially, but I bet it will ultimately find the underworld to be
unexpectedly interesting and rewarding. For best results, Pisces, make a
forceful decision to wander through the place with an adventurous spirit;
don't wait around for fate to command you to make an appearance. Dive
down! Dig deep!


I really had been hoping I was finishing my necessary time in the Underworld. I was kinda hoping I was finally getting to the whole Emergence stage.
Damn It All!
*sigh*
All right... if that's what it is going to take...
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