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Tarot Readings [May. 15th, 2012|07:36 pm]
In light of the bazillion things I need to get taken care of/saved up for, I am going to be opening up slots for doing Tarot Readings for the next few weeks, at least.

For now, I am offering the following readings/prices:

$5 - "Quick" reading. Either a general "what direction should I focus on" reading, or a brief answer to a simple question about one specific area (i.e. work, relationship, relocation, spiritual endeavors). Answers in email, generally about one paragraph. Though, let's be honest, my paragraphs tend to get away from me.
$10 - Basic reading. One full layout, with email write up. General reading, without specific question. Write up generally about "a page", whatever that really means. 3+ paragraphs, generally.
$15 - Basic reading, but with specific question/focus. About the same write-up.
$20 - Full Reading, larger layout, with or without specific question, plus one follow up question clarifying or expanding on any points in the reading. Write-ups tend to start rambling more around this level, so let's just say they get "thorough".
$30 - Full Reading, with or without specific question, plus a small follow up layout to answer any questions or clarify/expand on any points in the reading.
$50 - Deluxe reading. Full layout w/ extra supporting clarification, full write-up. Follow-up question with full layout and write up, with follow-up question if needed.


The rest of the info:
Requests for readings should be sent to nalidoll AT gmail DOT com. If you put "Tarot Reading" in the subject line, it makes all our lives waaaaay easier.
Payments go to paypal at the same addy; my paypal does accept credit/debit cards.
Preferred method of business is payment first; I queue them up as they clear paypal. This is in order to be fair, because I've gotten caught waiting weeks and weeks for someone to pay (things come up, I know) after getting their reading to them right away, while people who paid up had to wait for me to clear the requests ahead of them. Thus, this policy was established. If this is a big sticking point for you, contact me and we'll figure something out if we can.

The Extra Stuff, or Answers to Frequently-ish Asked Questions:
-- Yes, you can share this with friends. If I get over-booked or busy, I will simply lock down this post until such a time as I clear up my queue or free up some time.
-- I have been reading tarot cards for 24 years. Uhg. Thanks a lot for making me to *that* math. :P
-- Yes, if you're super-pleased with your reading and want to "tip" me, you absolutely can. Seriously, I don't know why people even ask me that. Of *course* you can give me extra money. But no, this is not necessary or expected; I've set my prices where I am comfortable with them as they are.
-- Yes, you can buy a reading for someone else. Contact me for details.
-- No, I will not share any of your information or the information about your reading with anyone else. Not even if I break my "don't drink and blog" rule.
-- My Sun, Moon, Venus and Mercury are all in Pisces, and I have Leo rising. (Yes, this one comes up. Not all that surprising, considering the whole "tarot reading" thing.)
-- I mostly use the Housewives' Tarot. It amuses me. Plus, it regularly tells me I could use a drink. It's downright spooky just how often it is right. :P
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Some of us... are getting old. [Feb. 29th, 2012|01:36 pm]
In honor of the passing of Davy Jones, and the resulting conversations with those in my generation, on FB, I have declared today "Guilty Musical Pleasure Day".

Please post with abandon.


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BitchAway Cafe - Post-Holiday-Grumps Edition [Dec. 29th, 2011|09:12 pm]
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So, you survived Christmas. Maybe just barely. Maybe it was great, but now things just seem off and full of hassle and frustration. Maybe it is just the post-holiday "hangover" and some mental and emotional detoxing is going on.

Whatever the reason, there seems to be a lot of steam needing to be released. So, open up the pressure valves and let loose, about whatever it is that is just Getting To You. Got something you need to just Let Go and get off your chest before the New Year? This is the place for it. Frustrations, disappointments, whatever.

I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say. It's open to everyone, so feel free to invite some friends along, or just keep it to yourself as your own little get-away.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.



Come on in, the Catharsis is great.
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Writer's Block: B.Y.O.B. Holidays [Dec. 13th, 2011|07:51 pm]
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What is on your holiday wish list this year?

One random answer will win a $50 Amazon gift card. [Details here]

View 1450 Answers



My biggest holiday wish is to have James home, of course. Luckily, that one is going to happen. I'm just not really thrilled with the idea of having to give him back. Heh.

My next biggest wish is to somehow manage to actually pull off a decent Christmas, especially for Miss Bit. The time and the money for decorating and such kinda got eaten up a little by having her sick and out of school for almost an entire week. My mum went ahead and just gave me a little cash for Christmas, so I am at least not worried about covering the basics (like food) and the main points (like a really cheap tree), and I am digging through boxes looking for more books to sell to try to drum up some more. I really wish the whole health/medication thing didn't make it impossible for me to sell plasma.

Yes, I know. That sounds really pathetic. It happens.

Because I have now been pushed, multiple times, to stretch my imagination beyond survival, I will go ahead and list the "if we suddenly had a windfall" wishes/wants as well.

The one big item to feature in my daydreams is a Nikon D7000. Even just with the kit lens to start. *sigh* Since it only costs about what we paid for the car, I put this one on the Almost Lottery list. (Should we win a decent lottery, I might upgrade that choice. Or... I might not, for now.)

I want a good mandolin for my kitchen.

I need a decent-sized external hard drive for back-up and photo storage. Especially because I would like to switch the laptop over to Linux, at least on a dual-boot system... though ideally I'd like to upgrade the Windows part to 7.

Oh... I want a bed. Seriously. After almost three years of it, I am kinda over sleeping on an air mattress.

Shelves. I want and need shelves, so very badly, so I can get everything in the house into a real *place* where it can live and not just sit waiting.

And... that's about all I can think of. Heh.
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I've been meaning to update, but I just haven't been playing as well with words as I would like... [Dec. 2nd, 2011|01:30 am]
[music |Jezebel - Iron & Wine]

To get things rolling, I got some word-prompts from the Lady L and from Mr. B.

From the lovely Lady L:

serendipity
Such a lovely word, and a beautiful concept. It was, for a long time in my life, my main compass. Things happened, and things flowed, and things came together just when they needed to. There was so little Worry in that time. If there was a Need, an answer would follow. It would find me. Threads came together when they were supposed to, and things appeared when it was their time. Plans were organic, but constant. Life just Was.
I discovered this only truly works when you are the only one drifting in your little boat. Now, it is a gift when it happens, and I often miss the time when I could give myself up to it. I still trust in the Universe's timing, but am pressed into others' concepts of deadlines and structure.

hedonism
Heh. This was also once a compass of sorts in my life. I charged after it with the battle-cry of "Why not?" It was a Mission, back then. Now it is just a seasoning. Pleasure for the sake of pleasure can become empty and lose it's flavor. The whirlwind becomes less of a thrill and just something dizzying and without balance or substance.

underbrush
This is where the secrets hide. It is the tangle of daily stories and truths and moments that cling to one another beneath the remote history in the trees above. It is the rustle of passage, the clinging questioning of thorns, the resting place of that which has fallen. It's where the quiet wild magics gather and whisper. It is the keeper of paths and the guardian of unknown ways. This is where humble plants wait for someone to see them and know their value, amongst the small hidden world of both hope and dangers. It is where those who seek small truths know to look, and that which makes those who cannot see where they are stumble.

ghost
Ghosts are made up of half-forgotten scents, tucked into long-unopened boxes. They are the rustling of letters, tucked away in silence behind the passing of the years. They are light glinting off of snow or rain, in those tiny moments when the world seems to hold its breath. They are the lifting of your hair, by a breeze that seems to come for you alone. They are the taste of sweat, or tears, long after the moment has passed. Ghosts hide away, waiting for you to turn a corner in your thoughts and find them. They are there, waiting, to dance with you in the moments where you never expected them to emerge. They tuck themselves into your pockets, knowing you'll reach for them when you most need to.
Ghosts remind you of who you are, sometimes when you are most trying to forget.


From the thought-provoking Mr. B:
Movie Theater
I don't actually like movie theaters. I do not sit still well, and sitting through a movie has always been a mixed experience for me. I watch movies at home, where I can stand or move.
Sticky floors, the smell of stale popcorn, too-small armrests... I know they are Wonderful places to some, but they never have been, for me. And yet... I always obsessively saved all of my ticket stubs. The tickets, for some reason, have always meant something to me.

Bellicosity
Heh. The popular meaning for my given name is "warrior", though it actually means "strife".
This word, though, always seems to mean, to me, empty anger, blustering combativeness, unnecessary hostility. I don't know why, but I always think this word is scared, somewhere deep inside.

Your First Memory
A glimpse of memory, feeding the ducks in England. I was two. A few more fleeting glimpses, still in England. Then, that same year, more clear memories of the Hamburger and Pickle house in WI, so named by my cousins because of the green and brown stones on its facing. My mother, pregnant with my brother, carrying me down the steps... slipping and falling. Later, being inside and listening to the scritching noises; there were bats in the walls.

The Afterlife
I don't know. I think it has more to do with what I learned from Carl Sagan and less to do with anything I learned in any church.
That isn't to say there isn't something, I just don't know that it is the Sequel to Life that most seem to think.
But I am okay with that. I don't happen to think my own view any less spiritually fulfilling than any other. This sort of thing works for me.
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Spreading the word for a friend... [Nov. 1st, 2011|05:04 pm]
The lovely and talented [info]lorigami says:

Due to a veterinary emergency, I am having shop-wide sale. 25% off everything until 5pm Thursday. Use code LUCIE at checkout.


Her shop: Lorigami - Clothing and accessories with a story to tell, waiting for you to add the fairy tale ending.

The stuff is lovely. Give it a look.
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BitchAway Cafe - The "Whatever's Stuck In Your Craw" Edition [Oct. 10th, 2011|03:38 pm]
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Feeling "on edge"? Fed up and frustrated? Just irritated with everything and everyone?

Well, apparently you are not alone. Come on down to the BitchAway and let it out.
There's enough catharsis for everyone. No limit, no coupons or membership needed.

I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say. It's open to everyone, so feel free to invite some friends along, or just keep it to yourself as your own little get-away.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.



Come on in, the Catharsis is great.
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Random Thought [Sep. 28th, 2011|06:22 pm]
[music |Wham! - Young Guns (no, I am not kidding)]

So, I was musing on something-or-another (that wasn't the stuff I actually need to be doing), and I wandered into wondering just why it is that today's younger generation do all seem to have less ability regarding concentrated focus. So, of course, I started thinking about how they have, since birth, been surrounded by so much more media input. When I was growing up, there was the TV, which was often not even on, and the radio, which was sometimes on in the background. When we went out, you had to specifically walk into an electronics store/department to be bombarded by sights and sounds (trendy 80's Malls notwithstanding). But it wasn't just *everywhere*. There weren't people walking around talking and texting and Plugged In, coffee shops and restaurants weren't filled with people clicking away at laptops, and you didn't have screens showing commercials for the store you were in playing while you shopped. And, of course, there weren't people constantly on the computer/playing games in most homes (some, but not most - heh).

That all makes a lot of sense. Of course, this is my brain we're talking about, so it didn't stop there.

I got to thinking about the constant *hum* of signals there really is going through the air around us, now, even if we can't actually feel/hear it. I thought about the fact that there are cell phone signals filling the air, as well as wireless computer connections, almost anywhere you go around people. There is, of course, the natural thought about what this might be doing to people.

And...

Being me, I wondered if it would be viable to convince people just how awful this was, for the sole purpose of getting them to buy special "signal blocking" headwear for their kids.

Yes, I am aware of the fact that deep down I really am one of those soulless, mercenary marketing people, but this wasn't actually about the money.


Really?
I just thought it would be fabulously entertaining to see an entire generation of little rugrats running around the park wearing tin foil hats.
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BitchAway Cafe - The Fukitol Edition. [Jun. 24th, 2011|04:32 am]
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By popular demand*, I am opening the BitchAway Cafe.

I totally need this, myself.

You know what they say... misery may love company, but nobody loves a good party like rage and righteous indignation.
(Okay... So I don't know what "they" say, but this is a pretty damn good saying and I find it handy way more often than you might think. So "they" would probably say it, if "they" ever bothered to pay attention or return my calls or stop by once in a while.
Wait... where was I?)

Oh Yeah...

You can't always beat the heat, but sometimes you can rant up a storm.


I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.



Come on in, the Catharsis is great.


*(no, really... the demand is totally popular.. it was even voted "most likely to never actually arrive at the Prom." But really, that's just because all the other demands were jealous.)
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Science, it is not just for breakfast anymore. [Jun. 5th, 2011|09:46 am]
(I started writing this the other night, right before my cat decided to try to die for no apparent reason. It has been patiently awaiting my attention in my client ever since. I am going to try to finish it now.)

Most of us are familiar with the Wikipedia Chaos Vortex which can cause us to lose hours of our lives; that link-clicking orgy which can begin with a simple search to check the date the Golden Gate Bridge was completed and lead to taking a wrong turn at the breed standard for toy poodles, only to leave us adrift in a sea of cross-dressing Nazis. It happens.

The thing is, I navigate the Watch Instantly selections on Netflix under a very similar principle. Especially documentaries.

As you can imagine, this leads to some somewhat random viewing selections.

I should mention, as well, that the Wikipedia and Netflix phenomena are, for me, tied in together. This is an affect of watching my Netflix on the Wii and being in possession of a laptop. James is getting quite used to me watching something and then disappearing into a whirlwind of Googling (which involves stopping by Wikipedia, generally to glance-and-grab names and such I need to refine my research elsewhere), eventually emerging to locate something else - possible related to the original search, possibly not - on Netflix. Sometimes, he even managed to keep up... or do a really good job of faking it.

Last night's selections included a typically assorted mix, until I eventually stumbled over something having to do with Vaccines. This reminded me that this particular subject is actually on the list of Things That Really Bother Me.

I do realize that there are a lot of people who might be surprised by my stance on this, and for the most part I do tend to keep it to myself. I know a lot of my friends are against vaccinating, and for the most part I just stay out of those discussions. I have also been slowly weighing and testing my own opinions about it, as to be sure of my conclusions.

My default stance on many things is pro-personal-choice, even if it is not what I would choose. In most things, I will defend vehemently someone's right to be wrong, just as I defend my right to tell them I believe they are wrong. I am also known for believing some "non mainstream" ideas, and it is no secret that I do not think that medical science is infallible or that it should not be questioned vigorously. Critical Thinking is Good. If someone's personal beliefs and choices do not affect me, those close to me, or society as a whole, then I think their business is just that: their business.

And therein lies the problem I have been having with this whole vaccination issue: It does affect all of us.

One of the reasons it has been on my list of Things I Have Been Thinking About, as Something That Bothers Me, is that I have been coming across more and more articles talking about the rise in incidences of vaccine-preventable diseases. There have been increasing outbreaks in first world countries. Now, given my concerns about certain possibly apocalyptic outbreaks of theoretical diseases, I kinda pay attention to things like "How The CDC deals with Disease Occurrence". And... to be honest... whatever else you think about the CDC, they are anal retentive like whoa. All of the major vaccine-preventable diseases are on their mandatory reporting list, and they do track these things, as well as following up and reporting in an active effort to contain it. However, it is still happening more and more.

The main issue, of course, is that it has become trendy to not just question medical advice, but to outright reject it, without a balanced application of critical thinking. There is also a largely selfish approach which comes, really, not from any lack of caring... but from a lack of understanding and a whole lot of misinformation. A lot of decisions are being made based on the ideas that A) the decision not to vaccinate one's child does not affect anyone else, because they can just make sure their child is vaccinated (and therefor "immune") and B.) that the risks are not that big a deal because we're talking about simple childhood diseases that aren't that worrisome to start with.
The problem is that neither of these things are actually true.

I have done the research. As a parent, I have looked into all of the concerns. I looked at the risks, the dangers, all of the scary stuff people were worried about... and all I found was science that refuted it and no science that supported any of those concerns. And you know... while I am all about the fact that medical professionals are often wrong, I am really big on science. Science is good. So... one of my questions is this: What the Hell is everyone else basing their decisions on? I mean that sincerely. What have I missed?

Because all I can find is a lot of misunderstanding about the way immunizations work, the way the immune systems work, the way "herd immunity" works and how it affects a population. There is also a scary lack of understanding of the diseases that vaccinations protect against and what their actual affects and risks are... and why finding vaccines for them was considered so important and such a triumph. Anyone who thinks that things like measles are not a big deal did not spend enough time hanging out with and talking to old people, hearing just how big a deal they were and just what awful problems they could cause. Most people don't even know what some things, like Hib, even *are*, much less why they might be a concern. Ironically, this entire lack of understanding and sense of safety against these things only exists because most people have chosen to vaccinate, but that safe bubble that those not vaccinating take for granted is now in danger... because more and more people are feeling complacent enough to not vaccinate.

Why does this bother me, personally? Well... I am immuno-suppressed. I have a school age daughter. With more people putting their unvaccinated/under-vaccinated children in school or other group activities (and so forth), *I* can actually be in danger of these diseases, regardless of the fact that I am probably the most vaccinated person ever in the history of forever. (Odd story... for some reason they lost my shot records - ALL of them - several years in a row when I was a child. The solution was to revaccinate me every year before school started, since that documentation was required. Funny thing... it didn't kill me. None of my health issues have anything to do with those shots. And I'm not even mildly autistic, I can assure you.)
Because I was immuno-suppressed, my daughter is actually one of the few children who *had* to get an alternative schedule to her shots, since I was primary care provider and exposing me could be an issue. This means that until she was caught up, she was among the higher-risk group at a young and vulnerable age. There are a lot of children and adults out there with immune system issues - whether naturally or because of medical treatments/medications/whatever. Also... nothing works 100%. It was never supposed to have to, since the idea is to strengthen the *whole*.
(Oh... also... I'm pretty sure most adults have no idea that they are supposed to get boosters for certain things, and that not getting them puts them at risk for things that can make them sick but put small children and infants at risk for much more severe and possibly deadly infections. Just sayin'.)

So... yeah. I don't get it. I would love for someone to share any actual facts and sources they have. I mean that. I would love to understand where this is all coming from, since it is, really, making the world a scarier place for all of us.
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Pass It On... [Mar. 12th, 2011|07:48 pm]
Attention Teachers!

(And people who know teachers!)

My dear [info]burlapdragon has posted a request on behalf of a friend who is working on their doctorate. She has a survey and needs teachers K-12 to help by filling it out.

So, if you are a teacher or if you have teachers on your friends-list (or both!), please do help out (and boost the signal!).

[info]burlapdragon's original request with the info can be found here.

Vielen Dank!
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Somebody's Watching You [Nov. 14th, 2010|11:43 am]
The ever-lovely and brilliant [info]shrijani is conducting a poll.

She would like to get as many respondents as possible.

This poll is about the experience of "feeling someone's eyes on you" and the possible science behind such a thing.


Please make with the clicking and the answering, if you would be so kind.

Also, you may make with the linking and sharing, if you know of others who would like to participate.
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The Hotter'n'Hades Summer Edition of the BitchAway Cafe [Jul. 30th, 2010|01:51 am]
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Maybe it's the heat.

Maybe it's just In The Air.

Maybe people are just stupid.

Whatever it is, right now there seems to be an awful lot to bitch about amongst the people I know, and so I am once again opening the doors to the BitchAway Cafe for some good, refreshing venting. Step up, dive in, and make a splash.

I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.



Come on in, the Catharsis is great.
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A Reminder, and a few words. [Jul. 7th, 2010|05:20 pm]
Yesterday, I asked people to take a few moments and vote for a school a dear friend of mine works (and struggles) at in order to help it receive a grant, and asked that people pass along the word. You are allowed to vote for the school once a day. I also posted this to facebook. If you can please take a minute to do this.

The school we are talking about is severely underfunded. It is in AZ, which already has education funding Issues, and it is also located in a poverty stricken area right by the border, which is even more neglected and overlooked in regards to the allocation of what funding does exist. The teachers there end up paying out-of-pocket for so much, just to give their kids the basics, while struggling to get by themselves and crossing their fingers that their jobs will not be cut.

One of the areas that schools like this end up falling so far behind in is technology. In spite of the fact that exposure and training from early on is becoming more and more necessary just to assure a fighting chance in the job market, these schools often do not even have the basics AV equipment, much less the newer tools now becoming such a regular part of everyday life in so many ways. These students will be entering a world where technology plays a bigger and bigger role, and they will be doing so way behind their peers, dooming them to a cycle of poverty.

This school is in a district where a large number of the community is not connected online, and where many do not even own a computer. Unlike better-off districts, they do not have the voting support on a local level that others take for granted. Ironically, this means that those areas already at an advantage over this one are more likely to receive additional money. This is not the most fair way to decide things like this, as it turns it into a bit of a popularity contest, with the prize going to the schools best connected and with more support already, rather than to the schools with the greatest need.

By taking a few moments each day to click a couple links, there is a chance here to make a real and immediate difference in what will amount to thousands of lives. We can all go on about the failures in education funding and policy, but this is a chance to help out that costs you nothing but a few moments of your time. Each person gets up to ten votes per day (one vote per school), allowing you to vote for up to ten ideas daily. If you would like to go through the ideas and find one in your area, or support something you feel passionate about as well, you can do that.

An important part of this is spreading the word. I have been disappointed, quite frankly, that nobody has taken a moment to do this. We pass along memes and quizzes and lolcats and and youtube videos and such without thinking. On facebook, we post app requests and links and anything and everything that strikes our fancy, and will copy and paste a status "to raise awareness" of something new every ten seconds. People will spend an inordinate amount of time posting to Twitter everything they do, say listen to, see... as well as commenting on what everyone else does, says, listens to and sees. We're all so incredibly connected and plugged in... and this is a chance to use that to help out those who do not have the luxury of such easy access to the world and to information.

I am flooded, daily, by requests to sign petitions, show support, pass on awareness of so many causes. I see, constantly, pleas for help for this person or that person who is having a hard time/being treated unfairly by life/in a tight spot.
I regularly see requests to give money to help some complete stranger pay for their CAT'S vet bill.

And yet... this would help thousands of students over the next couple of years. It is a direct and immediate difference, which will have a wide-spread benefit for our next generation, which will also affect *us*. It is a chance to do something Good, and it will cost you nothing.

So... please. Click to vote. If you have a Facebook, you can use that to sign in, or you can register in about 30 seconds at the site. They are not asking for your social security number, bank account, keys to your car, or your firstborn. It's a simple registration to help keep track of who has voted already that day. It's a chance to actually do something about a situation we all shake our heads and declare "such a shame". Something needs to be done, and this is one moment when you have to power to actually make it happen.
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Helping a Friend - Doing Something Simple to Help Education [Jul. 6th, 2010|06:48 pm]
A friend posted a request for help, needing votes for the grant from Pepsi that her school is attempting to get. The school is incredibly under-funded and in a very high poverty area of the country, which also means they do not have a lot of community support for things like this compared to schools with a higher percentage of internet and computer savvy students and parents.

The details are here on her lj, and you can vote here.

You can vote for them once a day, every day up until the end of the month. Please spread the word as much as you can. It would be wonderful to see something like this actually go to those who truly need it the most, and not just those with the best resources/support for winning something like this.
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BitchAway Cafe, the Special Toby Edition. [Oct. 18th, 2009|03:11 am]
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I think everyone knows how this works, but just in case:

The Idea of the BitchAway Cafe is to have a safe place to vent, where you won't necessarily have to stumble over it in your own journal-space.

The usual rules... Bitch Away about whatever's eating at you. Anon comments are allowed and Unscreened, IPs will be logged for security reasons but only bothered with in the event of inappropriate direct personal attacks (honestly, I don't care who says what, otherwise).

Get things off your chest, commiserate with others who have something going on that you can identify with, offer advice where it is asked for or welcomed... Just don't attack anyone here for what they have to say.

Pull up a comment field, pour yourself a cup of whatever works, and let loose. Everyone is welcome, so long as the rules are respected, so feel free pass it along to anyone you know who might need a safe place to vent.


Happy Catharsis, luvs.
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Status Update [Aug. 23rd, 2009|09:20 pm]
Due to circumstances I will discuss less publicly at some point, my power has been off since Friday.

This has led to being a little busy managing things, having to trek to starbucks to use the internet and charge my phone, and a lot of Crazy. Heh.

I will let ya'll know when I am back up and running. It should be on tomorrow.
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Reading Offer, in a serious crunch here... [Aug. 20th, 2009|01:43 am]
This is not an update. That will have to wait until... heh. Another time, anyways. I have a prompt for posting that I need to actually do, but first I must take care of some business.

Things are tight right now. Really, unbelievably, panic-inducing tight. It's beyond "crunch time" and into "flail about while screaming like a little girl because the deadlines are going to eat you" time.


So... Having taken care of a lot of the stuff I still had on my plate, and having a better chance of actually having reliable access on my own schedule very soon, I need to do everything I can to make money. Now.

This, of course, means tarot readings.

Unfortunately, I cannot offer them for tips, and other than special promotions I do not know that I will be doing so at any time in the future. For the most part, things went well, but there were, unfortunately, some serious issues I cannot afford to deal with. One of them was that, even though the very nature of tips is unpredictable, I ran into more unreliability than usual at times when I could least afford it. It seems that the farther I got outside my immediate circle, the longer and longer it took for people to even get back to me for follow-up, and then even those who said they were going to tip often just dropped out of sight. There have been wonderful exceptions to this, but not enough for me to be able to count on and plan around.

So, I will now be asking for payment up-front, with readings available at different price levels. I have been working for awhile to find different layouts that work for me at different levels of depth and detail. I will be getting a web site up soon, but for now here is the official word:


Readings
$5 - A basic quick answer-to-a-question with a "does it look good/favorable or not" sort of response. Ya'll know me, I never could say anything in twenty words or less (heh), so this will likely be about a paragraph's worth. You know, my long rambly ones, but only about one. You should note that looking for a black-and-white, yes-or-no answer from tarot cards is not really going to work. It is more likely to come out "This negative issue is in the way" or "This is helping it move to a positive place" in very basic terms. (A)

$10 - A basic "this is the underlying issue" sort of reading, without the in-depth details. It covers what led to it, what it is focused on, and what direction is being suggested. I have no idea how long the write-ups for this will be right now, in light of that whole "wordy" thing I have going for me. (B)

$20 - Your basic situational reading, with more depth than the above as far as what the issues really are and where they came from. Also, this one includes a follow-up question for clarification, at least for now. (C)

$35 - Much like the above, only including more about what is blocking or helping the situation and what needs to be looked at more closely. Also includes a follow-up, with a more detailed answer. (D)

$50 - A Consultation Reading. This is the one that gets into all the whys and wherefores, looks at what choices led from one part to another, what is blocking everything, what is working... etc. and so forth. It generally involves a follow-up or two, depending on the reading and the issue, and occasionally some seriously in-depth back and forth discussion. This is the reading some of my older, more regular clients generally get from me, even if they didn't know it at the time. ;) ("Consultation")


How-To
1. Payments go to nalidoll AT gmail DOT com, through paypal. From now on, readings do not get done until they are marked paid, unless I have made other arrangements with you ahead of time. This is only likely to happen with repeat clients and people I know personally, however. When sending the payment, include the email you will be using to contact me, if it is not the same email as that listed on the payment.
2. Email me at the above email address with "Tarot Request" and the level of reading (A-D, Consultation) you would like to receive in the subject line. Other than that, all I *need* is the name you prefer to be called by, except for the (A) level readings, where I need your question.
3. I will do the readings in the order I receive payment and send them out to you.


The blahblahblah about me, for them what don't know...
1. I have been doing this over twenty years. I read a little of everything, with cards being my favorite.
2. Yes, I am pretty damn good at it. Thank heavens.
3. I am currently using the Housewives' Tarot. It makes me happy.
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Almost an Update [Jul. 3rd, 2009|11:41 pm]
Quick things...

- Still no internet at the new place, but it should be set up by the middle of next week.

- Still not Moved (well, my stuff.... *I* am at the new place), because of Unforseen Happenings.

- I am on crutches, because one of those Unforseen Things involves possible torn cartilage in my knee.

- I am sitting up at Narah right now, where the roomie works, listening to Arabian Pop and the sound of hookahs. I may or may not be able to get some work done here.

- I have no idea what is going on with any of you I have not been talking with on the phone. The usual "tell me if I missed anything good" rules apply until further notice.

- My new place rocks like no other.
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Because I might be in that sort of mood.... [May. 30th, 2009|03:11 am]
I share this with you.

Christopher Titus - Love is evoL


I laughed my frickin' ass off.
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